Jionni and I are so excited to confirm that we are expecting our second child! Now knowing that our test results are good and our baby is healthy, we can finally talk about it!
I just wanted to write this blog regarding my second pregnancy. Unfortunately, like my first pregnancy, I decided to tell a select few people that we were expecting before the 3rd month mark, and it got leaked to certain media outlets. Again, it has happened with my second. I just want to say HOW THRILLED we are on expecting our second child and we couldn’t be any happier. But what sucks is how it’s never our business to tell anymore. It’s always certain media that decide to tell our wonderful news BEFORE we are ready. I get it, we are on a reality show and share 98% of our lives to our fans, but with this particular situation with expecting a child has to be announced from us personally, not by some tabloid headline trying to make a quick buck. It’s not that we want to keep it a secret, but we want to share our business at the right time. We want to make sure our testing is good and when we feel, as parents, is right to say we are expecting, that’s when we do so! Be sure that when I’m expecting my third child, I will not tell a soul for the privacy and protection of my family.
Headlines reading that I’m hiding my pregnancy because I don’t want to jeopardize “appearances” is so far from the truth. Who pulls this shit out of their ass anyway? Just because I’m pregnant means I can’t work? Fail.
I’ve read a lot of negativity concerning my second pregnancy, and I NEVER comment on what strangers think about my life, but when it concerns my family, something needs to be said. I’m a momma bear and I will stick up for my family until the day I die, and even after that.
With announcing this pregnancy, I’m STILL getting hate for “reproducing” and being a mother. For example, I saw an article that Complex.com posted by Nancy Stiles about my 2nd pregnancy labeling the title ” Snooki Expecting Second Child. God Help Us. ” Really Complex? With all the trouble in this world you’re asking God to help us because I’m expanding my family and happen to be an amazing mother to my children? Keep the 2012 jokes to yourself.
What really bothers me is how people think I got pregnant to be “selfish” and take the “shine” away from JWoww. Are you out of your minds? If you knew Jenni & I personally, you would know we always wanted to be pregnant together. I love Jenni like my big sister, she is everything to me, not fame. I would never try to “outshine” her and like real women, we support each other and always want the best for each other, not beat each other down to see who can be more “famous”. We have a true friendship that I will cherish forever, and getting pregnant just to outshine my best friend is absolutely absurd and disgusting.
I’ve also seen how upset people are getting at the fact that Jionni and I aren’t married yet. I’m so glad you are all concerned about our life, but we are doing fine I assure you. We planned to have a second child before our wedding, and will indeed still be getting married in the fall of 2014. We are a committed family that will raise our children to be the best they can be and give them the best life we can give them. So please, enough with the rude marriage comments. We are getting there, just waiting for the right time. He is my best friend and trust me, we will be together until death do us part. (And even in the afterlife I will be stalking his ass)
Maybe I’m pregnancy venting, but the world is really still so misunderstood about me, my family, and our life.
I would love to also mention that Jionni and I are VERY happy together. He’s my best friend and I’m his. We’re sorry that some weirdo had to make up a story to sell to try and ruin us, but honey we are very secure in our relationship and I know and trust my man, he wouldn’t hurt me or our family. He’s a real man. So we will pray for you and hope one day you can find happiness. The wedding is still on as scheduled and it will take the apocalypse to change that.
I want to thank everyone for their congratulations and we can feel how excited you are for us! Jionni and I wanted to clear the air by saying we only kept our second pregnancy to ourselves for the health of our child and until we reached a reasonable time to let the world know. No matter how annoying it is to have our 2nd baby announced without our consent and when the time is appropriate, We could not be happier! Big things are happening this year with the wedding, moving into our dream house and having our second bambino or bambina!
Thank you to all that understand where we are coming from and for showing respect to our family! XOXOXO
Love, Nicole , Jionni and Big Brother Lorenzo