I’ve noticed a lot of you asking on twitter how I deal with the haters and annoying people that try to bring me down. I’ve decided to write a blog about it to explain how I don’t let others phase me, and will hopefully help you guys too!
It’s not a secret that I may not be the most liked person on the planet, especially because people love to judge me off of Jersey Shore. I totally get it, everyone has their own opinion and I realize not EVERYONE is going to like me. I get a lot of hate, people saying I’m an abomination to society, I should be killed, and terrible things about my family. Now it’s totally okay not to like me, but talking about my family is just terrible. So how do I do with these jerks? Well first, I remind myself that I’m not as bad as these people think I am, I’m a great mother, a loving fiancé, and a great friend. I also know that they don’t even know me, so I give them the benefit of the doubt, because I know if they ever met me and hung out with me for 5 minutes, they would totally change their minds about me. People can be really cruel, thats just how our society is. Everyone judges one another and EVERYONE has an opinion. It’s up to you to say, Bitch please, you have no idea what you’re talking about because I’m fabulous. I was bullied in high school and I’m beyond bullied as an adult on television, but I refuse to let anyone bring me down because all they talk is nonsense. So if you’re having issues with bullying, or haters being completely out of line and rude, know that you are by far 10x better than them because that behavior is immature and disgusting. Also know that if they are taking the time to let you know their opinion about you, they truly care about you. They care enough to try and bring you down, and you couldn’t care less to even let them affect you. You are already winning, and people just plain suck. I’m sad to say that there will always be issues with people being rude and ignorant and judgmental, but its up to us to say screw it, I’m fabulous. Don’t ever think you’re anything less than fabulous! I love you all for always being so positive and always having my back! I love positive vibes and you guys give me the best vibes ever! Stick together, stand up against bullying and jerkoffs with opinions, and hair flip them all day. Better yet, kill them with kindness !!! xoxoxoxox
Happy Father’s Day to the two best people I know!!!
Happy first Father’s Day to my AMAZING fiancé Jionni. He is my best friend that I can tell anything to, and he’s also the love of my life that I cannot wait to marry and have more babies with! He is the best father to Lorenzo and I couldn’t be more happier and proud of him.
Also want to wish my dad a happy Father’s Day!! I put my father through a lot growing up and he’s also had to deal with my shenanigans on TV, but no matter what he’s always loved me and supported me, and for that he’s an AMAZING father to me! This is also his first Father’s Day as a grandpa! Get used to it dad, cause I want 3 more nuggets!!
LOVE YOU BOTH!!